If lately you’ve been thinking about buying your first home, maybe it’s time. Interest rates are crazy low, and home prices have dropped even from last year. But do you have enough for the down payment? Even socking away $1000 a month, it would take several years to have a sufficient down payment, especially in the Oakland/East Bay area where home values are still higher than in most other parts of the country. Lenders today require 20% down. For a $400,000 home, that’s $80,000 down. (An FHA loan only requires 3.5% down but includes heavy fees and PMI costs.)
One source that more and more first time buyers are turning to is their parents or relatives. Five years ago 14% of home buyers received “gift money” from relatives to help with their down payment. This year, more than 20% of buyers say relatives gave them money for their down. Several of my recent clients this year were able to buy their first home with “gift money” from relatives.
For parents who are financially able to help, “gifting” their children the down payment is in another way, giving them their inheritance early, when parents are still around to see the benefits of their gift. It’s also another way for parents to invest. Parents also sense that this is a great time to buy and want to help their children benefit from the current market.
Make sure you talk with your lender first before your parents move any monies around. There are clear guidelines that must be followed on “how” the money is given. Any missteps could void the “gift.” There are also tax guidelines to follow. For this year, a parent can give up to $13,000 (combined parents can give $26,000) and not be subject to the gift tax. Gifts higher than this are counted toward the total tax-free amount allowable during one’s lifetime. The excess amount also requires filing a federal gift-tax form.
Talk with your parents to see if this option makes sense for both of you. (Another option would be for both parents and child to co-purchase and down the road amend the title when it’s feasible.) Home ownership is very affordable now. A “gift” down payment may be the key to making it happen.